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A Breakup

A breakup is so hard to do. It is so difficult to get over the loss, sometimes even so desperately unbearable. In the first few months, you might not be ready to dive back into the dating game just yet because It takes some time to open up and getting used to again. If you're still fluctuating between sadness and anger then it is too soon for a new boyfriend. Give yourself some time to heal. A good idea is to make your social life superior and keep yourself busy with work, school, family and friends.

Indecisive?

It is normal to be indecisive about breaking up. One of the biggest breakup reasons is the feeling of being unsatisfied regardless of the exciting, fun things you two do together. If you and your partner cook together, traveling, having good sexual relations, and you still catch yourself miserable at the end of the day.. it might be a sign for you to move on. At the this point, think what could possibly happen if you are single, would you enjoy your day-to-day more?

As my mom always says: "every pot has its own lid", so a fresh start with someone new could help you live the life you've always wanted.

Changing Your Partner

If you are willing to fight for an unhealthy relationship because you both agreed to change, then just so you know it takes a tremendous amount of will, effort, power, growth and hard work to stay together happily ever after. It is sad to say but it is hard to find out if two people have the qualities and compatibility to sustain a relationship over a lifetime period. Sometimes you just don't know and you need to take that risk.

My most memorable breakup has been difficult, but I was a 100% sure of it. I also happened to be in a roller coaster. We loved each other deeply and we couldn't see ourselves breaking up. Even though we both knew from the first date that we weren't compatible, we entered a relationship with every hope that it would last. Eventually doubts have surfaced about our future together and we got exhausted from fighting for something that does not prosper. At the end we made the best decision, to split.