My Dreams Diary

I remember when I was only twelve, my mom gave me a beautiful gift, a diary where I could write anything I want. I decided to turn it into my dreams diary, where one of my dreams was describing my future Mr. Right. At first, I drew pictures of how I want him to look like, then made a list of positive and negatives: what I am willing to accept and what not, sometimes I even ripped the page and made it into an airplane to send it through the window straight to the sky, asking the sky to give me the men of my dreams.

So how would you know if this is your Mr. Right?

If you're wondering whether or not the guy you're currently dating is "the one,"

maybe if you keep wondering, than he isn’t. The essence of being in a relationship is to examine the relationship beyond thoughts; the connection you want to acquire will only come if the expectations, insights, and feelings of each other are completely the same.

never skip on discussing about future expectations. It can suddenly explode in your face that the guy you think you want to end up with does not want to get married or have children. Of course don't rush into things because it could lead to uncertainty and you can end up hurting.

"I am convinced that, especially for men, the most important thing about making a commitment to someone is not how great the sex is (though that’s really important), or how well-suited to each other he and a woman may be (though that matters too) or how madly in love he is (though love means a lot). It's how man chooses whoever is lying next to him in bed, and she's there exactly at the right moment"- Sharon Greental .

Always keep in mind that you are special, and because you are so special it is hard to find someone equally as special as you are. It is just a matter of time until you'll meet the person who's right for you. It can be months or years, but it is worth waiting :)

When you spot someone who catches your attention and makes your pupils dilate with interest and enthusiasm, pay attention to whether or not they can see the dream you envisioned for your life. If they can share your happiness and can accept you for who you are, not for who you can be in the future, then you have found your Mr. Right.

Maybe what I describe in my dreams diary is something to look forward to...